Picking Up Where I Left Off

                                            Finding Me
 
It’s been a while since I’ve posted here—September, I think.


Life got busy. Ideas needed time to breathe. But the truth is, I never stopped thinking about what The Stoic Journal is meant to be: a space to explore values, purpose, virtue, and all the things that matter more the older we get.


This past week, something unexpected happened—people started buying my Finding Me series again. I hadn’t promoted it. I hadn’t posted anything. But something in those books is still connecting with people. That means a lot.


So here I am again—ready to keep the conversation going, one post at a time.


If you’ve read Finding Me, thank you. If you haven’t, it’s a short series about discovering your values, embracing purpose, and living a life that actually fits you.


I’ll be posting more soon, both here and in The Stoic Journal Facebook group. No hype, no pressure—just reflections, ideas, and maybe a few things worth carrying with you.


Thanks for stopping by.




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